“Queer” Meaning, Origin and Examples

Last updated on September 5, 2024 by Olivia Marie

The term “queer” is used widely in casual conversation in more than one way. Years ago, the word queer was seen as a derogatory insult towards someone part of the LGBT community. Today this word is one of the “acceptable” terms or blanket terms within the LGBT community.

You will learn about the meaning and origin of “queer,” terms often confused with queer, and examples of its use in different contexts. There is also a section on queer terminology, which includes related terms, synonyms, and antonyms. This reference provides a clear understanding of how the term “queer” is used in modern language.

“Queer” Meaning

  • In slang, “queer” is often used as an inclusive term for people who identify as LGBTQ+ or have diverse sexual and gender identities.
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What Does “Queer” Mean?

Meaning of “Queer”

Adjective

  • (a) -to describe something out of the ordinary, odd, unusual, peculiar, suspicious
  • (b) – used to describe who is either gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender
  • (c) – to describe a person that is sexually different (gay or straight)

Noun

  • (a) – a person who is identified as a member of the LGBT community; a person who is not heterosexual
  • (b) – field of study, such as queer theory

Origin of “Queer”

The origin of the word “queer”, dates back to the 16th century to describe something or someone peculiar or eccentric; adopted from the German quer (meaning oblique, perverse). By the 19th century, the term was used to describe men believed to engage in same-sex relationships. During the 20th century, the term has gone from being synonymously used to call a feminine male a fairy, or faggot to being reclaimed in the LGBT community. By the 21st century the word queer has been used to describe educational studies.

Commonly Confused Terms with Queer

Queer vs. Gay

Queer:

Gay:

  • Specifically refers to someone who is attracted to people of the same sex, usually used for men.
  • Does not encompass the wider range of identities that “queer” does.

Queer vs. Tomboy

Queer:

  • Related to sexual orientation or gender identity that differs from the norm.
  • A broad term that includes many different identities.

Tomboy:

  • Refers to a girl who exhibits behaviors or interests traditionally associated with boys.
  • Does not relate to sexual orientation or broader gender identity.

Queer vs. Sapphic

Queer:

  • A general term for anyone who is not heterosexual or cisgender.
  • Includes a wide spectrum of sexual and gender identities.

Sapphic:

  • Specifically relates to women who love other women.
  • Derived from the poet Sappho from the island of Lesbos.

Queer Examples

In Conversations

Adjective

Example 1:

  • That painting in the museum is very queer.
  • My mom always said that my aunt Jane acts very queer at times.

Example 2:

  • The two girls in the corner are definitely queer, I haven’t seen them talk to any males here.
  • All of my queer friends are at the Pride Parade every October.

Example 3:

  • People say that I am queer since I don’t define my sexual orientation as gay or straight.

Noun

Example 1:

  • My friend John is so rude, he said, “There’s no way I am going to that event this weekend because I don’t want to be surrounded by a bunch of queers!”

Example 2:

  • Person 1: Don’t go to the Alibi this weekend.
  • Person 2: Why not?
  • Person 1: I heard there will be nothing but queers there, although I have nothing against them.
  • Person 2:  I love to party with the queers!

Example 3:

  • Person 1: What classes do you have on Fridays?
  • Person 2: I take Queer Theory and Queer Art history.
  • Person 1: What are those classes about?
  • Person 2: theorization of queerness and history of queer art and culture.

In Texting, Social Posts

When texting, you might see phrases like “I’m feeling very queer today” or “Queer pride!” Social posts on platforms like Instagram or Twitter often use hashtags such as #queercommunity or #queervisibility.

Texting:

  1. I’m feeling very queer today, and I love it!
  2. Just met a bunch of amazing people at the queer meetup!
  3. Queer pride is so important!

Instagram/Twitter Posts:

  1. Celebrating #QueerPride today! 🏳️‍🌈🎉 #LoveIsLove #PrideMonth
  2. So proud to be part of the #QueerCommunity! 🌈✨ #QueerAndProud
  3. Visibility matters. Let’s uplift queer voices! 📣🌈 #QueerVisibility #LGBTQ
  4. Happy to support my queer friends and allies! 💖🏳️‍🌈 #QueerSupport #LoveWins
  5. Expressing my true self every day. Queer and proud! 🌟🏳️‍🌈 #QueerLife #BeYourself

Queer Terminology

Related Terms to Queer

  • Fairy: Historically used as a derogatory term for effeminate gay men, but some have reclaimed it
  • Faggot: A highly offensive slur for gay men, though some within the community have attempted to reclaim it
  • Homo: Short for homosexual, often used derogatorily
  • Dyke: A derogatory term for a lesbian, though many lesbians have reclaimed it as a term of pride
  • Butch: A term used to describe a woman with a masculine gender expression, can be neutral or positive depending on context
  • Fem/Femme: Used to describe a person (often a woman or a non-binary person) with a feminine gender expression
  • Twink: A term used within the gay community to describe a young, slender, and often effeminate gay man
  • Bear: A term used in the gay community to describe a larger, often hairier man who projects an image of rugged masculinity
  • Queen: Often used to describe a flamboyant or effeminate gay man, sometimes used within the community in a positive or neutral way

Synonyms for Queer

Antonyms for Queer

  • Straight: Refers to heterosexual people
  • Cisgender: Refers to individuals whose gender identity matches the sex they were assigned at birth
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